The narcissist is the worst type of person that the human race could have EVER produced in any society. I have known a few, and SMITUA is one of them. SMITUA has tried to make me into one to make itself feel superior (DUH, a Narcissist). I've had to "play" as them, I guess in order to understand them better. I've learned to emulate, but to choose to ALWAYS be that type of person due to inner depression, is NOT good. This post has culminated over a long period of time for me. I, myself, am NOT looking for any admiration and do NOT seek to hurt others. I'm humble, seek to help others, and do NOT expect praise in return. Again, this is just information on my dealings with this stuff. My culmination of this BLOG is due to the Narcissistic attitude that I have fought for many years now. That shit attitude and life force is now reciprocating to those Narcissists.
The hallmarks of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are grandiosity, a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration. People with this condition are frequently described as arrogant, self-centered, manipulative, and demanding. They may also concentrate on grandiose fantasies (e.g. their own success, beauty, brilliance) and may be convinced that they deserve special treatment. These characteristics typically begin in early adulthood and must be consistently evident in multiple contexts, such as at work and in relationships.
People with narcissistic personality disorder believe they are superior or special, and often try to associate with other people they believe are unique or gifted in some way. This association enhances their self-esteem, which is typically quite fragile underneath the surface. Individuals with NPD seek excessive admiration and attention in order to know that others think highly of them. Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder have difficulty tolerating criticism or defeat, and may be left feeling humiliated or empty when they experience an "injury" in the form of criticism or rejection.
Related Personality Disorders: Antisocial, Borderline, Histrionic, Paranoid.
Narcissistic personality disorder is indicated by five or more of the following symptoms:
Exaggerates own importance
Is preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence or ideal romance
Believes he or she is special and can only be understood by other special people or institutions
Requires constant attention and admiration from others
Has unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment
Takes advantage of others to reach his or her own goals
Disregards the feelings of others, lacks empathy
Is often envious of others or believes other people are envious of him or her
- Shows arrogant behaviors and attitudes
50 to 75 percent of the people diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder are male. Additionally, it is common for many adolescents to display the characteristics listed above; this does not indicate that they will later develop narcissistic personality disorder.
This is my own addition. In my experience, the female narcissist is by far the most vile creature that ever could be conjured and bred by another human being. I'm not going to get too much into Sociopathy or Psychopathy as I am NOT a physician nor do I EVER claim to be, (although a Narcissist probably would in their sick mind). I just wanted to compile information to help others in a way that I learned through experience.
Now, in this video, the statistics and approach are different, but I wanted to give another point of view as there are some really good, credible points to this video as well.
JUST PROVIDING INFORMATION PEOPLE!
Here is a scenario. A female narcissist gets called out by someone that she worked with that can just feel that vile, putrid aura exuding from every pore of her being. That person is of good nature and eventually moves on from that workplace and starts their own journey. Then, SMITUA comes in the mix. SMITUA puts layers of scenarios around the narcissist. The narcissist is only thinking of how to destroy the person that outed her for being so vile of a person. So, per the definition, she is preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence or ideal romance. But, the narcissist also thinks that she can hide her hate for the other person and their successes. She also has fantasies of destroying that person and plots to do so as she is preoccupied with the fantasy becoming reality. Meanwhile, she thinks she is running things at her work and has her little ant colony that, per definition, she takes advantage of to reach her own goals. Things are not going her way at work and she has a narcissistic temper which perpetuates the fantasy into making it reality. Her insides are screaming of hate and pain (or so called pain), so she continues to plot and manipulate. She has a sibling that is to come into her world and take over for her as she has "Done her part and advanced the company more than anyone!" Ahh, the plot thickens for SMITUA. Inside, SMITUA has the knowledge that she is a narcissist, and doesn't like the sibling taking the leadership role. That simple act of the disorder has started a plot that will cause the layers to play in the real wold. SMITUA goes to her and asks, "Do you want to control the evil and make sure those who are jealous of you suffer as you have?" She says yes, in an almost orgasmic tone, as by definition, believes other people are envious of her. She thinks, "Even better, I will arrogantly tell that other person STEP BY STEP how I planned their demise after I destroy them!" SMITUA has some morals, so he does stop some of it, but NOT MUCH. Little does the narcissist know (or say no to) the layer that will destroy her sibling.
So what happens is that the person that outed her is destroyed mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially. BUT, and this is a BIG HUGE BUT, the sibling meets a fate that is just as bad and is physically harmed by someone very badly. (Or is she? We'll get to that in a minute here...) One of the things that made the narcissist angry and hateful is that the other person advocated for the sibling. This is where I say SMITUA didn't stop shit. SMITUA allowed for this evil to play out on the real world as SMITUA is a narcissist and probably gained sexual satisfaction from the whole scenario.
Now, where it REALLY starts getting fucked up is that the Narcissist, being protected by SMITUA, setup a scenario where the sibling would LIE publicly about the attack so that there would be a persona associated with the workplace and their leadership. "Wow! Having someone that was attacked able to lead the company is surely awesome! They know what it is like to be attacked and can advocate for others that have been through the same thing!" The narcissist came up with the idea, more money we will make, or did SMITUA just dream it? Well, the sibling ran with it, and their narcissist DNA started brewing. It is publicized on the internet and the sibling takes on the "attacker" like the communal narcissist would (watch the video above). Doing good for society! Gimmie PRAISE! Even though they don't actually find the person and no one is charged with the crime?
Now, remember people, I am not that smart. I'm hearing SMITUA tell me all of this arrogantly in my aura because I am not smart and just a substance abuse addict, or so they fantasize about. I don't have time to fantasize about scenarios like this in my life. This was figuratively beaten into my brain for over two years. Think about it for a minute, SMITUA can drive me crazy with all this shit but can't find the person that attacked the sibling? WHAT THE FUCK? ARROGANCE! NARCISSISM!
So the one the other person advocated for turns against them, even saying that they were the one that plotted the whole thing. In their words, "DUDE, they were too busy getting decimated in the real world! Damn redneck, substance abuse addict." <---NARCISSIST covering up the LIE with the fantasy that they conjured with their sibling. It is disheartening to the person that advocated for the sibling. Meanwhile, SMITUA is just laughing its, "SICK, FUCKING, ASS OFF!" or is it GOD?
If you were in this situation with real people like that, and you could NOT get rid of SMITUA, WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
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- Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition
- Center for Substance Abuse Treatment. Assessment and Treatment of Patients with Coexisting Mental Illness and Alcohol and Other Drug Abuse. Treatment Improvement Protocol (TIP) Series, No.9.
- National Institutes of Health - National Library of Medicine
- Caligor, E., Levy, K. N., & Yeomans, F. E. (2015). Narcissistic personality disorder: diagnostic and clinical challenges. American Journal of Psychiatry, 172(5), 415-422.